What is maturity?

Maturity is a higher level of intelligence in understanding, accepting and forgiving without thinking of revenge or hurting ones person whom you thought have hurt you. It is also an action that defines the person who they really are no matter the circumstances. Maturity has different ways of expressing itself, but what it really is the way you handle easy to difficult situations with a judgment between what is right and wrong. At some point of a person’s life, they encountered of what they believe is right. As they looked back and think, did they hurt anyone at all? One of the factor of maturity is an action of considering whether you run on somebody’s innocent life, take revenge of the situation or keep heads up while defining who you really are. Another thing that describe maturity is an action of self dignity rather than self-satisfaction. Both of the terms are very different in many ways. Self dignity is when you think about who you really are and what could you become. It is whether you chose the path of a dignified person or become a person who you never wanted to be. An action always have a huge domino effects. One action or no action at all doesn’t only affect one, but also affect your life to another whether it is positive or negative. On the other hand, self-satisfaction is a self-destruction. This is an enemy of oneself. Self satisfaction has never been a positive way. In one’s mind, it is a feeling of releasing frustration to another with a revenge that will ruins one life, but the effect of it has also never been a positive one. A feeling of satisfaction of hurting others ,for the reason that a person is entitle, has never proven a solution. There was one saying that everyone forgets whenever triumphs come. “Adversity defines a person”. An impression of one person will define not today, but will be a definite justification of who they really are in the future. One of the things that it became a right action of revenge are the reasons of what they have, but it never was acceptable. Maturity is learning to accept things and letting it go without taking to the next level of chaos. Each one has really never understood the whole concept of maturity and it was never defines of an age or experiences, instead a way of handling things in a right way without provoking situation. Some are confused of the difference between being mature and grow up. Grow up is standing back up after a chaos challenge and learning from experiences. This is a fact, experiences made a person to grow even more as a person as one starts treating situations maturely.

As from the word of the bible:

Matthew 5:22

“But I say to you that every one who is angry with his brother shall be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother shall be liable to the council, and whoever says, `You fool!’ shall be liable to the hell of fire.”

Yours,
Chengky

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